Stop, Pause, Take Time For Time. ( Aftermath of sending Out A Mass Mailer To Entire On E-Mail List From July 18-22) Lessons Learned ? Especially From Taking A Day Off On 7/19 As A Result Of Symptoms Of Heat Stroke !!! Leukemia (CLL) Picked On The Wrong Guy( Former 336 Pint/42 Gallon Blood Donor-double unit of platelets every 2 weeks from 12/1997-6/2008-whole blood every 3 months from 1970).
Just prior to 5 mile walk on Friday, July 22, I had completed my objective. Sent e-mails to entire data base. Expected the WORST. Knew from experience that MOST of them would be blocked by SPAM filters, NUMEROUS would no longer exist and in several cases past business relationships such as suppliers would be severed ( a reality). Received the day before a long e-mail from one of biggest customer’s ( Township of Middletown ,NJ lost 36 from 911) as well as another from the largest that was located in NJ that can see NYC skyline. Excited !!!
On the walk decided to take time for time. Had I missed ALL the flowers suddenly coming to bloom, especially native plants in N and E sides of Lake Nokomis ? Might Minneapolis be called the day lily city as almost EVERY home like mine has them ? A former co-worker gave us bulbs in 1983-they multiply-last 2 years hardly came up but NOW !!! WOW !! Our pristine like park areas on 5 mile trek do not SHOW a piece of paper from the “ dedicated love of land “ workers or responsible citizens. Almost EVERY HOME on walk has flowers or shrubs. Amazing !!! What lessons were learned from this week ?
1. Never stop believing in miracles or giving up hope
In the spring of 2004, my late mother’s, late cousin’s daughter who lost her dad ( also 1 st cousin who was on 100 th floor of 1 st Tower) , Rev. Dr. Kent Knutson( most revered, adored person ever met- when talking with him for an hour, he would BLOCK out all distractions-no phone calls, grading papers or thinking of conferences-made you feel like the most important person in the world). I used to hitch-hike up to twin Cities from SE Iowa during semester/holiday breaks-even assisted at our wedding in 1969-mother’s cousin would later be oldest daughter’s god mother. Kent would be 1 st case of diagnosed in U.S. who would die of Mad Cow disease at age 49 in 1973 after taking a round the world trip as the new President of American Lutheran Church) had lunch along the Mississippi River. Her husband, Don was one of 1 st responders as a chaplain in St. Paul-on a plane right after 2 nd tower went down had come contacted bladder cancer-3 months later-examined-cancer free !! On Tuesday 7/26/2011 met a neighbor a few blocks away who has MS-she has ups and downs-can now only walk down to the end of block and back if that , with her dog very slowly-a congrats that at least she was outside-tried to give comfort and support TO NEVER GIVE UP for once you do-a death sentence. See 7/27/2011 www.startribune.com article on front page of Section B-leukemia can’t hold back !!! INSPIRATIONAL-much worse than mine especially for a 21 year old.
2. Be in touch with your body-know strengths. A special thanks to physical therapist Cindy in Richfield, MN some 6 miles away-part of Allina Hosp-back went out 9/1/2010 like in 4/1989 (went to pain clinic at Abbott/Northwestern- part of Sister Kenny ) on Chicago Ave. Wife had worked there as physical therapist. Youngest daughter and oldest grandson were born there as well. Bedside manner/holistic healing. Beat with attitude and exercise-won 1 st ever sporting event as 74 year old back playing partner and I captured the church golf tourney-just taken up golf after a 20 year absence. Saw Dr. on 9/27-pain so SEVERE that it took me 2 ½ hours to hobble on 5 mile walk-then rushed for evaluation-said that I would beat it-5 more sessions. Thanks Medicare-$ 10 each session-80 % fixed but MUST do stretching exercises as well as wife works on legs EVERY day.
3. Do you know who you are?
Have a mission statement about yourself ? I am: the proud son of duBois(changed from DuBois in 1930’s.) French Protestant Huguenot’s( Dutch born great –grandmother-even saw where she lived in Amsterdam in 2002 /Scottish born grandmother) settled Brooklyn in mid 1650’s and Norwegian born grandfather and grandmother came in 1890’s. Brooklyn born parent’s were married 64 years before mother passed on a few days prior to 85 th birthday in 2000/dad lived 7 months passed 90 in 2002-they taught me, commitment to a faithful marriage such as now of 42 years with angelic/adorable mate, devotion to family, honesty, integrity, values, caring for church, community and others. Will always be a New Yorker “ at heart “ as well as STILL believing that my beloved Dodgers never left Brooklyn to play in L.A. in 1958 !!
4. Allow extra time-plan your day.
In May of 1998, we allowed extra time to drive from Williamsburg, Va. to attend a former customer’s wedding in Philadelphia. Years ago, we did the same in driving from Orlando to Ocala to attend my Aunt and Uncle’s church made it IN TIME to both-within 10 minutes of Aunt and Uncle as we had to drive through town, So true with your daily activities. Take the time to visit with walker’s or observe scenery and wildlife.
5. Expect the unexpected-why not ? Be prepared for the unusual such as:
On 5 mile walk of 7/27-just prior went down to garage-discovered 2 tomato plants growing in alley alongside the wall. On walk, noticed a pumpkin plant spreading in front yard. Since humidity and air so thick, had to take easy steps-managed to find an almost record 11 golf balls. What NEW experiences will you find, discover and cherish ?
6. Pay someone a compliment or a thank you especially those such as Park /construction workers who maintain land like our pristine groomed Minneapolis Park System.
7. Do occasional house cleaning of files as well as past such as experiences and feelings. THEN !! Look to see if such “ issues are getting upset about “ !!!
8. Change routine and times of activity ? Meet different people-even do same route 2 days in row.
A fellow walker noticed-a nice change of pace plus on 7/26 did extra steps and climbed hill since it was at 2 miles on end of walk. Took a later swim than usual 12:45 P.M. yet forgot ski pole-still managed to go up the 80 ‘ hill without support. Even deleted e-mails at a different time. Made a change in my chair and lowered on 7/28-adjusted feet not to be up and discovered that I did not need glasses to read computer screen. Alter the way you do yard work.
9. Avoid taking electronics ONLY WHEN NECESSARY IF JOB OR CAREER DEPENDS ON IT.
Am AMAZED that people will walk with a cell phone especially pushing strollers with children. !!! So many as well are plugged into a communications device. My walk is intended to appreciate this glorious “urban wilderness”. Still recall a woman wading in the water talking on cell phone while she watched her child swim. Do you think that kids or pets notice the lack of attention ? However on 8/1 walk, church member’s husband who has now joined me for 6 th time this summer, took out his AMAZING piece of technology as he had received a video of his only grandson who now lives in England. His communication and daily in touch with family vs. our’s whose youngest daughter is 3 miles and oldest daughter with both grandson’s 2 miles. Just prior to coming at 8:00 A.M., he called and revealed that the WEATHER CHANNEL had predicted rain at 8:45 AM. via its radar site. NOTHING WAS GOING TO MAR THIS walk like another former distributor who has joined me in the past-several weeks ago-he was concerned about rain-never happened. He brought along an umbrella as well as me as I wore my winter like sneaker boots in case of rain. Opps !! Didn’t even get a drop.
10. Take out a sheet of paper-write all the things that you are unhappy about-then turn it over and write all the things that you are thankful for-you will keep writing and writing and writing.
“ Thanks to the Rev. Hoyt Whitebread of the Swedish tradition Fairfield, Iowa Lutheran Church in a sermon after JFK was killed on 11/22/1963 “
11. Read or subscribe like me since 1970 the daily paper in print-different to read than on line ?
You actually get to hold-stop-pause-can even SAVE-sometimes our paper has such moving articles about human relations that one can shed a tear. Or From our 7/23 issue-view an article about Lake Nokomis that I trek every day or be inspired by a jr. in high school who voiced a concern on Editorial page about caffeine consumption-imagine at $ 4.00 every day if that applies to you-$ 1400 a year. PROVED INVALUABLE on 7/28 trek-previous day needed a caffeine fix-made 4 cups of coffee with 6 tea spoons of coffee-had hard time breathing in close to 90 * heat-felt better in late afternoon as prior to swim did MORE steps as well as hill. No shortness of breath since I had only 2 cups* 8 oz.that is not much plus only one scoop of coffee-did 4 up and down steps and hill then at 12:30 P.M. prior to swim did another 8 up and down Read the comics !! Want to find out about family values ? It’s ALL there !!!
12. Take a sabbatical away from activities WHICH EVEN MIGHT INCLUDE divorcing one self from “ hectic life “ regardless of TIME whether it be an hour or several days . After wife’s shoulder operation we were hit from behind resulting in 7 operations each on opposite eyes-mine blurred-her’s out of sync with brain-since 2/2002 we have had a Sat. night candlelight dinner either in house or 3 seasoned porch with a then promoted $ 2.99 bottle of wine from a local liquor store-can still be found in area for that price. We just sit and chat-only answer phone if from daughter’s.
13. Look inside your medicine cabinet , view RX, supplements-aware of eating too much ?
Target Corp. through the Medica supplement will have you sit down FREE after age 66 with a pharmacist for an hour and go over all your RX and be a connection with Dr.-saves on Dr. visits , costs of unnecessary RX as well as review of all medications. Preventative health care !!! Plus review all side effects. Meet a fellow occasionally before swim running up and down stairs-at age 54 had a heart attack 2 years ago-stints put in-refused to take RX-he took time to share on 8/4-lost the mother of his 18 and 21 year old 10 years ago-doesn’t need-the exercising OUTSIDE a way to reduce RX ? Shared his loss.
14. Vacation=anytime away from daily activity or CHANGE OF PACE -even if retired.
Might it include a day drive such as to see family 210 miles N-then back in same day, a night stay near at a hotel where family can swim, or EVEN TIME OFF using a personal day to get disconnected from work . Norwegians do not bury their dead with pockets-told by a Norwegian on an Oslo train platform in 1999. duBois constant theme-TRAVEL NOW !!! BEFORE something happens to your health !!!
15. Take on something new !!
In 2/2002 while mate was in hospital for 3 days for a broken shoulder after slipping at oldest home( metal plate inserted, doesn’t go of through security, but she is still electrifying) our minister’s brother-in-law subbed as a preacher. “ Instead of giving something up for Lent , take on something new “ !! Then started a reading program of books that were opposite of political philosophy as well as what I believed in. Broadened horizons. Am a biography reader mostly-can recall in reading while Gov. Connelly of Texas was in same operating room as JFK that he heard another bullet drop into the pan or Walt Disney always thought that he was an illegitimate child as in movies such as Bambi-always looking for lost parent.
On Sunday 7/24, this always a jacket and tie guy even at 90 plus , wore for only 3 rd time jeans to attend an outdoor service at local lake. Every Sunday a different church has a program. My youngest daughter attends this church’s regular Sunday service in an old theatre downtown. It was casual with donuts and coffee served before the service. They also had a band with music that was so loud that it shattered my ear drums. Traditional hymns were done in different tunes. A picnic was celebrated afterwards on top of the hill where my wife and I met my daughter’s associates. Glad we attended.
16. Beware of surroundings !!
Even on walks as I carry a hiking stick joggers/runners/bikers know that I need space. Look back to allow them to pass as you move over to the side-CIVILITY ? on Sat /23 walk-sky threatened at 2.5 mile mark-high winds, dark clouds of severe storms, light hail as I kept going but was aware of what would happen if trees fell. Like driving over 130 M.P.H. on Autobahn-one must look out mirror for those in L lane going 160, in front for those who want to pass others at 110 plus as well as viewing 5 miles ahead.
17. Honor the caretaker-give relief !!
Met fellow on walk who drives the 12 hours plus once a month to check on his losing memory, still physically able mother who is also looked at daily from sister who lives in area. A labor of unconditional love Known many in church who have elderly parent’s live with them-has anyone ever given the caretaker TIME OFF ? How many caretakers die before those that they are looking after as a result of stress ? Might we have a National Holiday or some type of recognition to praise these people ?
18. EVERY MOMENT IS A BLESSING !!!
Perhaps the greatest advantage of the leukemia, chronic pain leg, back, shoulder pain is in being able to relate to other’s hurts. Makes one appreciate life ? Why do we travel so much ? Have seen family, friend’s, associates post pone trips-then something happens to their health and they can’t.
19. Keep a journal or look back upon past !!!
Since 7/14/2011 I have recorded from a sports book as well as on 2 calendars what happened on this day. A great reminder of the past, especially the 50’s and 60’s.
20. Buy things in pairs.
As someone who is active, I tend to wreck clothing, shoes and boots. Have ruined 2 nice Norway hats-finally found a similar replica at a Swedish gift shop in Norway, Michigan. Now even purchase another set of glasses-fortunate to recover thrown glasses from 8/23/1995 Alaskan car crash. When I worked for F.W. Woolworth’s in 1968-1970 we had to wear suits-suggested we find one with 2 slax.
Stop, pause, take time for time. Expect the unexpected. On Sat 8:30 A.M. jaunt met a runner who I met briefly last year. He was the one, not me who commented on the T-shirt that I was wearing of Parsons College, Fairfield, Iowa . A RUNNER WHO SLOWS DOWN ???? plus he had knowledge of the school. His family is 5 th generation settled in St. Paul. Will we meet again ? Why not ?
My Sunday 7/31, 6:30 A.M. walk was a struggle with high heat, humidity and rests( ME SIT-very rare). Upon arriving home prior to 8:30 even considered not going to church-who me ? NO WAY !! After 20 minutes laying down-decided to go. Church was without power !! Started with candles being lit-organist switched to grand piano. MAJESTIC/DARK !! Our new minister since 6/5 energized the church-then power came on prior to sermon-what did he talk about ? Never stop believing in miracles( added about personal life since this former owned business in building trades made a career change to enter ministry in his early 50’’s had trouble with making ends meet .With loss of ½ income-several organizations adopted him and family which even helped out with a $ 1000 for child’s braces. For those familiar with certain denominations-the sermon is SUPPOSED to be based upon New/Old Testament lesson that has a 3 year cycle for every Sunday . What did he talk about ? Miracles from Jesus from feeding the 5000 with 5 loaves of bread and 2 fish.
After Monday walk with friend decided to wait out storms-prior to anticipated swim went up and down hill 11 times without a ski pole but with Alaskan given willow hiking stick after car accident -nice workout-thunder in distance-passed on the swim-then came back to e-mail from former customer who’s significant’s other mother has cancer-chemo to follow. Another one to think and pray about. Then followed by e-mail from best man. He was our church intern in NY-built a friendship-this Wisc. native thought his Green Bay Packer’s were the FINEST TEAM that EVER PLAYED !!! We then made a BIG BET of a $ 1.00 when Green Bay played the Philadelphia Eagles on 12/26/1960 in front of 67,325 fans. Loser had to put in collection plate-Eagle’s won 17-13-then winning QB Norm Van Brocklin at age 34 would become expansion 1 st coach of Minnesota Vikings(also won a title with L.A. Rams in 1951). After seminary he decided not to become ordained but received an M.A. that would lead him to eventually do EXTREMELY well as a C.E.O. in non-profits. Then while in another major city thought his team would beat my beloved NY Giants-let’s place a bet !! Loser pays $ 15.00 to favorite social service !!! Took him 6 months to pay.
Upon retirement he built a “ dream home “ in central Oregon over looking the mountains adjacent to golf course. He was a workaholic-never traveled-always wanted to play golf. Putting in key to his million $ home-he slipped-ripped out entire L side-took 1 st trip to Norway in a wheel chair-unable to play golf or drink wine from climate controlled wine rack as a result of pain medication. We had visited a few times on trips. During my college semester breaks would visit when he lived near Minneapolis-then on a weekend I hitch-hiked to where he was getting Master’s some 250 miles away. His e-mail was ENCOURAGING !! Just returned from 3 week trip to Europe that included staying near Eiffel Tower which we did not-he is playing golf despite the extreme pain as well as “ living with the pain “ and taking medications. I followed up with e-mail-send ALL THAT PAIN MY WAY-will filter out the bad eye. How many get to stay in touch that long-he celebrates # 50 wedding anniversary the end of the year. Oldest daughter and family live near by with grandchildren. Still special to be in touch.
My 8/2 walk was the most difficult ever !!! Had what appeared to be an irregular heart beat, the humidity HORRID !! Give up the trek-NO WAY !! Took easy steps-waited till 9:30 A.M. for possible storms to clear-of course had to take extra time along golf course fence to hunt for golf balls. Few walkers out in cloudy weather. Unusual that there was no airplane noise. By looking at what happened on this day in sports-mentioned that college All Stars had beaten Green Bay 20-17 in 1963 behind Green Bay born, Wisc, QB Ron Vander Kelen ( career only lasted 5 years with the Minnesota Vikings ). In addition paper said that it was 10 th anniversary on 8/1 that Minnesota Viking Korey Stringer died of heat exhaustion at age 27 on 8/1. Very careful “ to listen to body “ since mate, oldest daughter and oldest grandson were visiting my wife’s 91 year old mother some 210 miles away. Took a risk after walk-prior to swim-went up and down 80’ hill and steps 8 times-sky was beginning to clear. Was only one at the beach-then used COMMON SENSE-swam out around a buoy and back THE SILENCE like the 1998 airplane strike-eerry-here in an” urban Minneapolis wilderness “ ?
On your daily doings, ALLOW EXTRA time to appreciate what is around you ? Will you encounter something new, change a habit, be happier, or inspired to sit down and “ write that Great American novel “that you have thought about doing all your life ? Will your relationships improve with family ? Will you become more relaxed ? On my 8/3 walk encountered previous mentioned Luther Seminary , St, Paul grad who served churches in Texas-then received a Phd. from Wisc-no longer uses Rev. after name)( if still involved in church do, especially if retired ). He happened to remember best man as a fellow student. For those unfamiliar with the growth of the Norwegian Church in America it appears that SOMEONE has a tie to Trinity in Brooklyn that began in 1890 . If not, take TIME to ask people about growing up, where they went to school or college-why did they leave area ? My walk ended with a brief conversation with MS neighbor who struggles to walk down in bare feet with dog to the end of the block block. Commented on AGING-“ at least it only happens once” !!!
Walking out the door with my Brooklyn Dodger shirt the next day, was reminded of the 7’ plus daisy like flowers that we saved the seeds from picking on 911. They now flourish as a ¼ have bloomed along our 40 ‘ boulevard that have the day lilies, S side of house as well as in front and extended 3 season porch. With the 10 th anniversary of 911 approaching have you begun to put your thoughts down in print or even shared with others ? Have you grown as a person ? Unless you had some connection to family or friends did it really bother you-what has changed especially in security at airports-even now in 4/2011, we had to go through security to take an elevator to top of a 54 story building in Frankfurt. ? What have you learned ? On the phone with a customer at the NRAO Observatory, in Green Bank, W.V., he told me to watch T.V.-dashed downstairs to see 2 nd plane hit-that morning I was on phone with several customers guiding them from seeing on T.V. on how to drive around N.Y.C. area or racing to train stations as they used cell phones. At noon, my wife and I picked up then 4 and 5 year old grandson’s. Where was their mind set ? Took them along Minnehaha Creek from our church on Minnehaha Pkwy. where we picked and saved the flowers. With a canceled flight to Vancouver, B.C. on 9/14, we merely got an oil change the next day, tossed bags into car and left that night. 1 St Americans to cross into Canada on 9/14. Took 5 years to get a memorial bench in front of church-a place to rest on a walk, be reminded like both my wife and I that parent’s family buried elsewhere ( at least can be remembered) as well as a reminder of 911.
Everyday is a blessing, perhaps ? Enjoy the NOW !!! Cherish relationships !!! Give blood-the life you save might be your own !!!
This was sent below to my entire data base from Monday July 18-Friday July 22
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A “ special note “ of many, many thanks in staying in touch from: ( 8/1976 moving into home in Minneapolis-previously lived in Hopkins, Mn( 8 miles to W) and Des Moines, Ia )( 5/1976-3/2008 Toastmasters),( 8/1983-9/2009 telemarketing computer products nationwide),( 8/2009 blog/writings), ( 12/1997 from home office I have met on daily walks with a special thank you to person who encouraged me to write 1 st of unconventional, non-orthodox, economical travel tips when posted 6/2/2011) Includes all e-mail contacts in data base from communications with high school/college associates, family, friends to those who have responded back and some who haven’t.
..Prior to selling, a former Toastmaster suggested that I treat every customer as though a guest in one’s home-might this be with everyone that we meet as well ? I am OFFICIALLY RETIRED as 3/7/ 2011 when I stopped filing for unemployment and looking for work.. Secret to life-relationships, caring for others, commitment to family, church, and community. So excited to have met you on journeys ALL OVER THE COUNTRY as well as in Europe !! More importantly has been in networking, receiving advice, health/wellness feedback and computer help For this a HATS OFF TO YOU toast or a favorite expression taught from adored Toastmaster sister-MAZELTOV !!!
Ideal ? Stay here in home M-F upstairs perch usually before 6:00 A.M. turn on clear channel WCCO 830 (till 7”30 A.M.) which can be heard from San Diego to Portland, Maine, Key West to Seattle to read paper, look at e-mails and play with future articles. Have even written poetic pieces for special occasions where the lines sometimes do not always rhyme-at Toastmaster Christmas party I gave an annual poem of several lines using each person’s name and made sure I put in “groaners” where the words were way off and out of sync. Most enjoyable has been in creating verse to family especially 2 daughter’s, 2 grandson’s and married mate.
See in posts: 7/7/2011 poetic prose, in 5 mile early mornings walks in Minneapolis, 10/5/2010 in sagas as Dodgers won 1 st World Series Championship on 10/4/1955-55 years to the date, 11/12/2010 in Giants winning 1 st World Series since 1954( both teams left NYC in 1958), love of baseball comments 10/11/2010 and “ attempted “ to put in verse 4/7/2010 tragic W.V. Mine accident( began selling into the state in 8/1983. Coming this fall will tell the epic tale of NY Football Giants winning 4 th title in 1956 against Chicago Bears on a frozen Yankee Stadium field 47-7.
Am in what I call “ retirement transition “. Will look into volunteering with any organization that deals with chronic eye, muscle, back/leg pain, trauma or cancer since I HAVE WALKED IN THOSE SHOES.. Perhaps positions where I might be able to use communication, writing and compassion skills ? I still do not know what I want to do when I grow up yet will continue to promote travel, outdoor exercise, memories/passion of baseball from 1950’s/1960’s and donating blood. If $$$’s were no object I would like to find a source SOMEWHERE to have published a daily, weekly column titled, “ Outdoor Walking Observations From A Different Set Of Eyes At The North Pole In Minneapolis “.EVERY DAY there is ANOTHER STORY or person to share and care about. Would even tie in what happened in sports on that day as a connection to past.
What a pleasure indeed. With warmest regards of joy, good health, happiness, peace and grace If you “ ever venture to the frigid North Pole “ Call or look us up as the crow flies some 5 miles from Mall of America, less than 15 minutes from Minneapolis/St. Paul International airport or 3 miles S of downtown Minneapolis. A treat of conversation by front stoop OUTSIDE if mosquitoes are not thick, on porch or in home over a glass of wine, cold beer, cup of hot tea or lemonade !!!
I would like to stay in contact. Feel free to notify me or my always adorable/angelic mate if you plan to travel and NEED FREE tips !!! . Would consider driving even a few hundred miles to see you if near Minneapolis-why not ? Keep me posted about health and family ( the concerns never stops as one feels connected by a thread of human kindness).
Since 7/7/2010 I have dropped over 24 lbs from 209 to 185 as a result of walking 5 miles, vs. 3 miles EVERY day plus in winter added 40/50 minutes on snow shoes( will it stay off ?). Have all energy back from being diagnosed with chronic leukemia (CLL)on 7/7/2008 which ended my 42 gallons( 336 pints) of blood giving which included the last 10 years of giving a double unit of platelets EVERY 2 weeks( delayed 7 times for eye surgeries). Began doing this on a continuous basis in Minneapolis from 5/1970. ( gave 1 st pint for Viet Nam troops at Parsons College, in Fairfield, Iowa in 1965 blood drive)
Will we meet you on our future jaunts of driving in all 50 states( 49 twice, Alaska 3-drove in 2004- since 1969) or more trips to Europe that might include or add to 13 plus visited( 6 into Germany, 2 Norway from 1999).Why not ? Race you through airports like O.J. Simpson, met you while scaling all 768 steeple steps 30 “ wide in Ulm, Germany or wave to you on Autobahn at 132 M.P.H. like this past April ? With warmest regards. Spoil and cherish family.
Respectfully,
Roger duBois
4025 Longfellow Ave. S
Minneapolis, MN 55407
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